James Burutu, 25, who was celebrating his birthday when 57 Nigerian men were arrested on charges of public display of affection with members of the same sex, smokes a cigarette in a local bar in Lagos, Nigeria, February 15, 2020. Burutu wasn't among those seized by police. He was still preparing for the party in a hotel room with friends when the raid took place. But even though he wasn't arrested, the raid also changed his life. He says he has been ostracised by relatives. "So many of my family members don't want to see me because of this issue," he said. REUTERS/Temilade Adelaja SEARCH "NIGERIA LGBT" FOR THIS STORY. SEARCH "WIDER IMAGE" FOR ALL STORIES.